[Seriously.]

[It is the only way things work, because that's life when you don't have a clear goal, just a vague sense of what you want to accomplish. Still, she notices the hesitance, but also his willingness to actually accept that it might...be...slow.]

I mean I can't teach this to you overnight. I know you're smart, but it's a matter of repetition more than anything you'd learn in a book. Experience and practice are how this works.